Ask.   The only rules that really matter are these: what a [wo]man can do, and what a [wo]man can't do.....I hate the word "wholesome"....Between two evils, I always pick the one I've never tried before....I believe in everything until it's disproved. So I believe in fairies, the myths, dragons. It all exists, even if it's in your mind. Who's to say that dreams and nightmares aren't as real as the here and now?.....I was born with an enormous need for affection and a terrible need to give it.